思考・考察
良药苦口
mengqiao
Recently, I might be a little frustrated.
I thought I was but maybe nobody would believe me since I looked as happy and without troubles.
However, who can really understand others?
Someone told me that you are a lovely girl, even I always say some bad words on you, I never really mean it. Please don’t mind. Yeah, sometimes for response I pretend to be got hurt, but actually, I want to say, don’t worry, I never mind. Because I know the ‘bad words’ are just jokes for close friendship.
What I really will keep in heart, is the real comments for my study, work, personality, and performance. If it’s praise, that will make a sunny day~ Otherwise criticism, my world could be rainy. I don’t mean I cannot accept comments and advises for disadvantages, on the contrary, I really appreciate it. It’s hard to find out all the drawbacks by yourselves. If someone point them out, that’s an honor I think, especially before causing more worse results. But people are always hard to accept criticism, as the old saying “良药苦口,忠言逆耳” in Chinese.
Without pain, you will never learn from lessons, never know how to change, and never get improvement.
That’s what I learnt during my grown, and paticually these few weeks.